Terms of Endearment Forbidden in ScotlandIn much of
Britain and quite often in Australia, it is customary for women to
address others and be addressed by others as "love" or some other form
of endearment, even if the parties are hardly known to one another. For
instance, if I order a sandwich in a sandwich shop, the lady making the
sandwich will often ask me "do you want pepper and salt with that,
love?"
I guess it is in one sense old-fashioned and silly but I
personally think it makes life pleasanter for everyone. Though some of
the terms used in the North of England are a bit amusing: "duck", "hen"
etc. In much of the American South "Hun" and "Sugar" are used
similarly, of course.
There have been attempts to limit such speech in England (See my post of
August 17) and the poison has now spread to Scotland. The Glasgow City Council has instructed its employees as follows:
"Don't
assume it is acceptable to address women by endearments such as 'dear',
'pet' and 'love' when you would not address men in such a way," the
guide instructs. "Don't refer to women as 'girls', for example, 'the
girls in the office'."
It adds: "The term 'ladies' should only be used in situations where the parallel term 'gentlemen' is used."
Source
And
there is much more idiocy of the same kind. Why it "oppresses" women to
call them "Love" defies my imagination. Maybe it is felt to oppress
lesbians and that leads to the objections from feminists, many of whom
seem to be of the lesbian persuasion.