Misunderstood
banter?This is about
remarks on an Australian TV show but I am not quite sure what the problem is.
The remarks were clearly a joke:
"Dancing With The Stars" presenter Sonia Kruger is in hot water
after making derogatory comments about a "sweat shop of illegal immigrants"
slaving away on her wardrobe for the Melbourne Cup Carnival. Kruger, 43, made
the comments during the celebrity reality show last Sunday after co-host
Daniel MacPherson asked about the bevy of outfits the star would require for
her four day stint covering the racing carnival for Channel 7.
"Lets
just say there is a sweat shop full of illegal immigrants working on them
right now," Kruger said before referring to the show's Malaysian born musical
director Chong Lim. "How is the family Chong? Alright?"
Disgusted fans
of the show have lashed out at the personality on internet message boards,
branding Kruger's comments as outrageous, racist and
inappropriate....
Kruger offered no apology and said she had no regrets
about the remarks. "I certainly didn't say anything with any intention for it
to be racist," Kruger said.
"Chong and I are in a friendship that we
poke fun at each other all the time. In all honesty political correctness does
get up my nose ... I poke just as much fun at myself. I would never ever, ever
want to seriously offend anyone."
Source
As far as I can work out, it was thought derogatory to the
Chinese to mention that some of them work in "sweatshops". But they do. Almost
all clothing seems to be made in China these days. And the Chinese workers are
poorly paid for it by our standards. But they are very glad to have the jobs,
nonetheless.
And it is also true that Asian women living in Australia
(mostly Vietnamese) do supplement the family income by making up garments for
designers on their sewing machines at home. And they too tend to be poorly paid
for it, but again they think it is better than earning nothing.
I think
one problem here is with people who cannot handle reality. Another problem may
be that some people do not understand banter. The remarks above were clearly
banter. Banter in the sense that I am using it is mocking or derogatory
statements made to and about another person that are not expected to be taken
seriously by that person.
For instance, I have a couple of old friends
whom I abuse roundly almost every time I communicate with them. And they do the
same back. And what we say would just about get us shot if uttered on TV. Yet
they are friendships of very long standing which we all enjoy. Saying abusive
things to friends is in fact a statement of confidence in the goodwill of the
other person and it strengthens friendships rather than weakens them. But I
suppose there are some sad souls who have never taken part in that sort of
thing.
Undoubtedly, however, it was risky for the lady to use banter on
TV